"I want to see less preaching about little details of Adventism that are different for different people. For example, when I was growing up my parents and grandparents would always take me out to eat at buffets and restaurants on Sabbath afternoon for church. But I would hear sermons or lectures about how that wasn't something God wanted me to do. So I always felt guilty doing it. But as an adult, the South Bend church for the last few years has focused on one message: God is love. They talk only about that and about how it's the most important thing and I agree. I want more churches to focus on the aspect of love and acceptance and allow the Holy Spirit to guide as it does in our personal lives. I find it legalistic to talk about how getting tattoos is wrong, about how not to work on the Sabbath, etc. I want to see the church take a clear and focused stance on all the good God does for us- like how He loves and forgives us, and not scare us into loving Him by telling us about how He'll smite us if we have a tattoo."